It’s Time To Kill Your Inner Beta…

It’s Time To Kill Your Inner Beta…

There’s one simple truth that needs to be internalized and accepted by anyone who enters this business as quickly as possible…

“Only leaders make money in networking”.

In other words, if you’re not a leader, you’re not going to make any kind of significant income.

This truth is defined by the very nature of a “multi-level” compensation model.

You don’t make money in this business, unless you lead a group of customers and distributors under you.

I learned this lesson the hard way…

At first, I tried to side-step the truth, and get around it with tools and gimmicks.

I jumped from opportunity to opportunity, and from marketing tool, to marketing tool, thinking that they would allow me to cheat the system and make money without facing my fears.

5 years of failure later, I finally gave into the truth…

That only leaders make money in this industry, and that if I was going to build a business, I’d have to change who I was as a person, and become one.

My days as an excuse-making wuss who was afraid of people, of the phone, and of success, would have to end. It was time to kill the “beta” inside, that had been holding me back from achieving what I really wanted my entire life.

I said good-bye to him on a prospecting call one night, when I finally decided to take control of the conversation and be a leader to the prospect on the other end of the line.

From that moment on, everything changed in my life.

The life-long frustrations I’d suffered about money, about success, about dating, and friendships disappeared.

It was like being freed from a self-imposed prison of mediocrity and suffering.

And from that moment forward, I was left with nothing more than a sense of inner peace and confidence… The kind of confidence that comes when you finally realize that you’re 100% in control of your world, your reality, and what happens in it.

The kind of confidence that inspires those around you, and garners their respect.

The kind of confidence that other people find irresistible… Or even “magnetic”.

The kind of confidence that instantly communicates to everyone that you’re a leader… You’re an Alpha.

And with that transformation, came a new reality that most people only dream of, filled with incredible people, experiences, income, and a chance to change the world for the better.

Over the past 5 years, I’ve shared this personal realization with the world inside the pages of Magnetic Sponsoring, and Black Belt Recruiting, helping many self-proclaimed “Betas” discover their “Inner Alpha”.

But these two courses only scratched the surface.

For years, I’ve been dying to create a follow-up to Magnetic Sponsoring that would dive much deeper into this transformational process, and the psychology of leadership.

In fact, I knew exactly what I was going to call this course if I ever had the opportunity to produce it, and even bought the domain 4 years ago… on November 15th, 2006.

But I’ve never been able to put my thoughts about this process into words.

I understood how I felt, and why, as I moved from Beta, to a Pre-Alpha, to Alpha.

I could describe the experience, and the results were apparent to everyone who knew me before, and after, but my personal self-education in psychology wasn’t strong enough to allow me to communicate this process to others in a step-by-step format.

So this knowledge sat there… waiting.

Then a few months ago, my good friend, and mentor Robert introduced me to a friend of his.

His name was Ryan Angelo, and I soon realized that he was a kindred spirit, who had travelled a similar path in life.

Despite the fact that he’s only 29 years old, Ryan has spent most of his adult life, mastering the human mind at a level that most people will never be able to comprehend.

His entire purpose in life is dedicated to helping others like you, achieve your full potential…

To help you break the limiting thoughts and habits that have been holding you back…

To help you unleash your Inner Alpha and become the leader you want to be.

I knew that if anyone could help me bring “Alpha Networker” to reality, Ryan was the guy.

And so we have.

Only leaders make money in network marketing.

This is your opportunity to become one.

Stay tuned for more details tomorrow…


16 Comments

“Only leaders make money in network marketing.” That one statement should be ingrained in all network marketers heads. If you aren’t making it, then it has to be because you haven’t become the valuable leader you need to be.

Can’t wait for the course to be able to include it in my team’s trainings.

Posted by Ernesto Baluyot on 25 January 2010 @ 8pm

Mike – got your email today and thought I would check out the website….I am waiting with much anticipation to kill the Beta and give birth to my Alpha!!

Bring it on!!!

Posted by Monica McCullough on 25 January 2010 @ 8pm

Hey Mike This Looks Great, Can’t wait to see it unveiled fully (looking forward to the launch ;)

Posted by Greg Gomez III on 25 January 2010 @ 8pm

Hello Mike,

I just received your email on “Killing Your Inner Beta”. I’ve been an MLMer for just over a year and even developed a website.(not working right now)

After purchasing your Black Belt Recruiting and Magnetic Sponsoring (1 year ago) and devouring it’s content your message hasn’t made it’s way from my head to my heart.

I guess I’m such a “wuss” as you put it and so paralyzed with FEAR that I have not been able to move forward mentally. It’s total FEAR with a dose of minutia.

At this stage in my life … I’m a certifiable BETA.

I can empathize with your life-long frustrations you suffered about money, success, dating and friendships.
At fifty-two I need to find my inner Alpha and develop the “Winner” I was born to be and finish strong.

Thank you for your commitment to sharing what you have gleaned in life & network marketing with others.
I look forward to more of what you and Ryan Angelo have to say about Killing MY Inner Beta!

Sincerely from Colorado,

Keith
(719) 338-3144

Posted by Keith Cook on 25 January 2010 @ 9pm

Hey Mike and Ryan,

Been a long time of your teachings Mike! I am very happy to see this course you guys created. I have been struggling for years now, knowing that at the end of the day my failures fall back on my belief system in one thing. No, not the industry, but myself! Building groups of over 400 in 2 different company in 3 years. Just to see each of them fall apart and my commissions checks doing the same. (SUCKS)…Long story short, I know it is a mindset, and can’t wait to see your new course.

Posted by Josh Flowers on 25 January 2010 @ 9pm

Hi Mike,
There you go again. I enjoyed magnetic sponsoring and liked the idea of being an alpha. Most importantly, being a person of value. If you are talking of taking this to the next level, then am in.

After reading your email about killing the inner beta, I read between the lines and searched for alpha networker and landed on this page probably before it’s official launch. Even though, I watched for only 20 minutes (somehow I couldn’t go past that), as usual it was quality stuff as you interviewed Ryan and sharing your personal insights.

I will be waiting in line to get in as you launch this. Keep touching the world and may all your wonderful dreams come true.

Posted by Ethan Musolini on 25 January 2010 @ 11pm

Hihi

I want to congratulate you for this program.
Brilliant stuff….over delivered like allways
cant wait to hear more on the subject.

AlPHA out

Posted by Kristofer Elfar Sighvatsson on 25 January 2010 @ 11pm

Ah, so you’re the guy who snagged the .com.
Figures.
Just so you know, I already started building the .org

Cheers mate!
Andrew Murray

Posted by Andrew Murray on 26 January 2010 @ 2am

Mike,
I look forward with anticipation at what you will be revealing this week! I too understand the power of the mind and it’s ability to unleash us into living the life we were went to live.

Posted by Peter Grimes on 26 January 2010 @ 4am

Hi Mike,

I am exited what this new product will bring into my life.

Thank you for doing this!

Best greetings from Austria

Volker

Posted by Volker Schaefer on 27 January 2010 @ 3am

I’m wondering if this is why beta fish kill one another when put in a bowl together.

Posted by Justin King on 27 January 2010 @ 3am

Mike,

Glad you have finally put this into action for the rest of us. As always I am looking forwards to your next post.

David Lane

Posted by David Lane on 27 January 2010 @ 5am

[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Jason Better and Peter Grimes, David Lane. David Lane said: RT @tweetmeme It’s Time To Kill Your Inner Beta… http://ow.ly/1nALiq [...]

Posted by Tweets that mention Alpha Networker - It’s Time To Kill Your Inner Beta… -- Topsy.com on 27 January 2010 @ 7am

Seth Godin states in his book, Tribes,’We Need You To Lead Us.’ As you know Mike, leaders create new vision, new boundaries for respect, honesty and integrity, all of which you uphold and exemplify so poignantly.
I look forward to seeing what the Alpha Networker will bring to our Industry, it’s time we all up the ante and start making a ruckus!
-Skye King

Posted by Skye King on 27 January 2010 @ 4pm

Mike Rocks. Just went to another meeting, in a language i don’t understand. Again, they are hitting with a hammer the 100 names list. If only they knew.

Posted by John Buchanan on 27 January 2010 @ 10pm

My Beta is dead… Time to send this to my downline and kill off all those beta fish! Time to stop living in small bowls, and get them into the ocean!

Posted by Alpha Networker on 3 February 2010 @ 12am

Leave a Comment